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A wedding day celebrates one of the most important decisions that a couple can make and in choosing to be married in the Church they make important statements about themselves and about their relationship.  Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God, a means of His grace, a sacrament: in choosing to be married in the Church the couple are entering into a Christian marriage and they ask God to be part of that marriage.  Moreover, in this sacrament they make a commitment that lasts the whole of their life.  “It is a way of life that all should reverence and none should lightly undertake.” (BAS p.529).   The wedding day is only the beginning of a lifetime committed to one another.  This will take them through good times and bad, through sickness and health, through wealth and poverty.  The promises that they make to one another may not always be easy to keep.  To help the couple prepare for this commitment and to give the tools for a lasting relationship the Diocese of Quebec requires that all couples seeking marriage in our church attend a marriage preparation program.  

WHAT WE REQUIRE FROM YOU
  • You should contact the incumbent, the Rev’d Fr James Quirk, to arrange an initial meeting. We usually require six months notice, especially in cases when one of you has been married before because of the preparatory process that this requires.
  • It is a requirement that one of you has received the Sacrament of Baptism in a Christian Church.
  • As mentioned above, all couples must attend a marriage preparation course.
If you have any questions about this please do get in contact with the parish office. 819-842-2686